The holidays are approaching.
I mean everything about this time of year means that it's just a ton of work, parties, commitments, tons of moments where you feel like an inadequate mom, and like you could down a bottle of wine in one sitting. But its also a somewhat magical time for me as well. I have always enjoyed the holidays, and I love establishing traditions and making memories with my family. One thing I always remember fondly of my childhood were the holidays. My mom went to unbelievable lengths to make them special and memorable. Some of my favorite memories growing up stem from those days. And of course I want to do the same for my children. But with so much to do (also my son's birthday is New Year's Eve so it becomes especially chaotic this time of year not to mention expensive) I often times find myself run down and exhausted.
So I have been working on making life easier and operating on the whole "work smart not harder" concept. And this is what I now do to survive the holidays
1. I FINALLY got organized
Invest the time and supplies into getting organized. It will save you time, sanity, and money in the long run. Last year, I finally took some time to get all of my holiday decor, supplies etc organized. I made sure that each season was placed in a tub, labeled, and placed on shelving units we purchased and put together. And starting with my fall decor, I simply went downstairs, pulled out the tub I needed and decorated my home. Same for Christmas. I had to decorate early this year because we will be out of town when I normally do it , but I literally walked downstairs, grabbed the boxes I needed and put my decorations out. It made life so much easier. And I also recommend utilizing storage for ornaments, Christmas trees etc because I know exactly where it is and just have to grab it out of its container and I am done. t is important to remember that organization does much more than saving your sanity when it comes to getting it together for the holidays. It is also a money saver. I cannot tell you how many times I found duplicates of things that I thought I did not have or simply couldn't find all because it as a total chaotic mess in my house. Now granted its not great still to this day but as far as getting ready for the holidays its much better.
2. Online shopping is my best friend this time of year.
The internet is my best friend. Seriously I mean that. Because without it, I would be lost. I utilize online shopping for nearly everything especially my holiday shopping. My husband and I decided a while back we would invest in Amazon Prime service (and seriously if you don't have it I highly recommend using it). Free quick shipping of everything you could imagine right to your door. Last year, during the height of my daughter not sleeping, I made a list and completed all of my Christmas shopping in a couple of hours online. I did not have to worry about hauling both kids to the store, forgetting half of what I wanted, nor did I have to worry that my kids would have a meltdown while trying to complete said shopping. I also have really begun to rely on Amazon wish lists as well. My husband and I can add things to our lists of things we would like to have as gifts and all I have to do is click and buy! This makes shopping for my husband (who admittedly is not easy to buy for) much easier, and I know it is something that he wants and will enjoy! So no guessing, no wasting money and crossing my fingers that he may like it. I plan to do the same this year because I cannot tell a lie, I DO NOT LIKE going to the stores this time of year. Added bonus of avoiding the pesky holiday crowds at stores! I also utilize other online shopping. I am a huge fan of Etsy which provides an opportunity to shop small business owners, which I am all for. Other great options include groupon and living social if you are looking to gift other things other than just goods but maybe a date night for new parents without breaking the bank.
3. Buy yourself a new outfit, and/or go get your hair done.
I am serious. Really. If you are a parent you probably bought your kids lots of cute holiday clothes but once again failed to take into consideration that you yourself deserve a nice top or sweater or necklace to feel nice for the holidays. I broke this year and did it finally. And now I have a couple things I can wear to be in pictures with my family and not wear my jammies again this year. It is nice to have grown up things, and dress like a woman. Your significant other will appreciate it as well. Also if it is in your budget or you have a hairdresser friend...GIRL GET YOUR HAIR DONE! I waited a year! A solid year before getting my hair done after my daughter was born, and you know what I proved? I proved I could go a whole year hating the way I looked. It accomplished nothing. Finally went to get my hair done, and it feels really nice to have a fresh look for the holiday season.
4. Order food for your get togethers. Trust me.
So I have several events I end up hosting during the holiday season, and if there is one thing I have learned it is that life is a whole lot easier when I just order food and display it on my pretty serving dishes that trying to just make it all and seem like a Betty Crocker Rockstar. Many local grocery stores offer catering menus that you can choose from, and honestly its worth the money. I will cook Thanksgiving Dinner and Christmas Day dinner but aside from that, I am hitting up my local grocer and placing an order.
5. Go have a date with your friends and spouse.
We spend so much time preparing, planning, and thinking about what we are going to do for others sometimes the relationships that are most important to us can be neglected. Go out of your way to plan a nice date with your spouse or your friends to just let loose and enjoy some time away from the hustle and bustle that is this time of year.
6. Don't go at it alone.
If you live close to family DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT try to be wonder woman and do it all. You are just asking for trouble and additional stress if you attempt to go overboard and host every holiday party, cook everything, and do it all. First off, let's be real. You can't do it all, and you will not enjoy anything about one of the most magical times of year if you are go into wonder woman mode. Ask for help. I do not live close to family so I am simplifying this year as much as possible. I need to enjoy these times with my kids because they go too fast.
7. Take care of yourself.
Seriously I mean this. I honestly don't care how you do it but do it. Make sure you can squeeze in a little extra downtime or rest here and there, eat right, and move your body. It makes you feel like a new woman each day and keeps up your strength for the marathon holiday season ahead of you.
And last but not least....
Enjoy this time with your family. If you are like me then you spend most of your holidays caring for other people. I am a nurse currently hoping to transition away from the bedside for the sake of my family, but there are many many times when I was spending the holidays away from my family. So the time I did have needed to be efficient.
Happy holidays from my family to yours.
xoxo
Meghan
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